You’re lazy. You can’t tell when something (I think) needs to be cleaned?” I mean really, are there people out there who really don’t know that we are all very different animals who don’t all function from the same universal brain? Why assume and get frustrated every time you discover I’m not like you. I prefer communication over expectations placed on me. If you place an expectation on me, you are setting me up to fail. When you communicate with me your needs and wants, that sets us both up to win. I’m in the loop as to what makes you happy. Don’t ever be shocked that I don’t think or perform exactly like you. Don’t assume my priorities are in the same order as yours. That certainly doesn’t make me “lazy”, it just makes me different from you. I’m brilliant in my own right. I am attuned to things and take care of very important things that many others need help identifying in their own lives. But I don’t assume they are “garbage” or “lazy”, I just think they are different and our talents lie in a different realm.