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16

May

cognitivedissonance:

thisisthinprivilege:

artetolife:

animechick4814:

just-a-skinny-boy:

hate-help-hotline:

We’re a group of bloggers that want to fight against the rise of anonymous hate here on tumblr. This blog is to help anyone and everyone who is being attacked by hateful anons.

If you’re receiving hate messages on your tumblr, or you know of someone who is getting hate messages, please check out our blog and reblog this to spread the word. Thank you :)

Please reblog this, let people know that there is help for them!

Dude so little notes?

This is really relevant to our followers, who are regularly stalked by TITP trolls and other fat haters (and since fat’s a big intersectional issue, who get other forms of hate as well). 

I have people write me a lot asking how to deal with anon hate. This could be an excellent resource.

07

Mar

If Tumblr is taken down in a few days because of CISPA, I just want you all to know I love you all so, so, SO much.

getoutoftherecat:

homosexualsandkillerbees:

sophie-bennettt:

azureamaryllis:

Oh fucking god no

https://petitions.whitehouse.gov/petition/stop-cispa-cyber-intelligence-sharing-and-protection-act/19sQhBpy

Sign it. Now. All of you.

SIGNAL BOOST THIS. SIGN IT. PLEASE

WE STILL NEED 11168 SIGNATURES COME ON PEOPLE

because i don’t want this blog to get taken down.

Go sign. Now. What are you waiting for? Please?

(Source: philtheyeti)

02

Mar

One day left on the Postpunk Project book!

They’re so close to hitting their funding goal! I want to see them succeed, because it’s a great project and I fervently want this book. Please spread the word, pledge to the project, and help bring this look at the roots of goth and postpunk into the world.

01

Mar

The Photographic Evidence of '80s Postpunk Project: The last day to donate for the gothbook

nowthisisgothic:

Tomorrow, 2 March is the last day you can financially support my bookproject via
http://www.kickstarter.com/projects/postpunkproject/the-postpunk-project
Donations can also be send to postpunkproject@gmail.com

If you choose the ‘87 dollar’ option, that option secures you a book. (you are able…

15

Feb

winneganfake:

bonesy-dekay:

musicjunkie4892:

anneka:

bofur:

bofur:

Guys, this is heartbreaking.

One of the ladies from my class posted this on facebook TODAY. Her daughter went missing. She was last seen here, in Portland, Oregon. She is an amazing mother and my heart and soul go out to her.

I really want to get the word out. Lesley (the mom) is so amazing…this is just ripping my heart out.

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE SHARE THIS

I know I’ve got some Portland followers!

find her!!

Will keep my eye out and spread the word!

OI! Portland people! Get yer eyes peeled! 

25

Jan

ashbet:

http://www.flickr.com/photos/ashbet/8374041492/in/photostream
Guys, I’m disabled and getting sicker. I really need to find a home for this gorgeous, affectionate Maine Coon girl — please help me out by re-sharing? We’re in the Dallas area, but reasonable travel is an option! Thanks so much — I want our sweet foster girl to find her forever home!

Signal boost! Help find TinTin a home!

ashbet:

http://www.flickr.com/photos/ashbet/8374041492/in/photostream

Guys, I’m disabled and getting sicker. I really need to find a home for this gorgeous, affectionate Maine Coon girl — please help me out by re-sharing? We’re in the Dallas area, but reasonable travel is an option! Thanks so much — I want our sweet foster girl to find her forever home!

Signal boost! Help find TinTin a home!

12

Jan

Signal boost! Anyone in the Dallas, TX area able to give a home to a lovely fluffy cat?
ashbet:

Please help me find my beautiful foster girl a forever home!! Thanks so much

Signal boost! Anyone in the Dallas, TX area able to give a home to a lovely fluffy cat?

ashbet:

Please help me find my beautiful foster girl a forever home!! Thanks so much

21

Dec

Copying the work of other artists and selling it as your own is a rotten thing to do. Please help spread the word about how Catalyst Studios and dammitkoi are being ripped off.
dammitkoi:

This is a crow skull replica. Jason Soles and I have been casting and selling this skull - and roughly 6 others cast from the same real bone original (borrowed from and returned to Mother Earth, because it is against US law - specifically the Migratory Bird Treaty Act - to possess any part of a native migratory bird; don’t confront me about that, confront the folks in the US government, specifically the Fish & Wildlife Dept. This is not what this is about. Moving on.) for over 12 years. We sell these in our Etsy shops, and have sold them at craft fairs and spooky events, and we sold them on Moritorium.com when said site had a shopping cart. We have re-made the molds several times in those twelve years, but I recognize our lines (molds leave lines, which sometimes aren’t sanded off as much as I’d like), our shoring (that’s where the clay goes in to make the skull “solid”, bird skulls aren’t solid, of course, more on that later), when I see it. I am proud of our work and I love seeing our castings used in other people’s crafts, jewelry, etc. We do not wholesale them and we do not sell them for direct resale, so we should be the only shops on Etsy that carry them.
Lo and behold, here is a photograph someone else took of what are definitely our skulls, and she is claiming on her Etsy listing that she made them herself. Hm. How… interesting.

I wrote her a “conversation” (that’s the name Etsy gives its internal message system) and reminded her of why I don’t sell wholesale and that I would not sell to her again if she did not remove the listing. I ended the note with, “If you are recasting from my original molds, we have an even larger problem, but you certainly wouldn’t do a thing like that, would you?”
I received no response. So I reported the listing to Etsy as misrepresenting the item. After all, even if she is casting them herself (which would be lame all on its own anyway), they were our research & development, our handling a dead animal (someone else’s illegal pet, if you must know; I cleaned it myself), and our risk of being FINED BY FISH & WILDLIFE TO THE TUNE OF $1500 had an agent happened to wander into my house while I was performing said cleaning. I am a conservationist, FYI, and I don’t believe it’s cool to violate the treaty, ergo, I buried the thing when I was done. Because of said treaty and people not wanting to take that risk, there aren’t a lot of crow replicas on the market. I know one other vendor (local to me, even) who makes them - they are rotationally cast and nearly as detailed and as fragile as the real thing. We make ours for costumers and for people who will wear them around so they are sturdy.
Now. Are these recasts? I do not know. They could be, but I went through my sales records and have sold Ms. Brown (MortiisM, she calls herself on Etsy, “Melissa Mortiis”, if you simply are dying to know) no less than fourteen replica crow skulls. So as long as there aren’t more than fourteen replica crows in her sales archive, we’re solid and she’s *just* misrepresenting my work as hers. I haven’t counted individual sales in her archive on crow items because this other thing got pointed out to me by a long-time friend, fan, and occasional photographer for the studio…
This listing, for a kitten necklace? That’s my kitten skull, I can tell from the teeth and the shoring… I’ve sold her one. She has sold… quite a few.
Really. Really? Really. I still need to send Etsy’s admins a note about this, but I contacted the seller immediately and let her know I could count. I can only imagine that Etsy’s complaint inbox is boiling over during the holiday season and I don’t see how adding to it further is going to speed things along. I will probably show them this post to illustrate my previous point though.

This is my hand, about 3.45 pm PST. I washed it shortly after, because dead things? No matter how “clean” you get them? Grodie. Mittens here was a barn kitten, and he did not make it, obviously. Poor little dude. So my friend traded him to me to make a mold and make some skulls for their projects. We can see here an example of what I refer to as “shoring” - clay in hollow areas to block the rubber from entering the skull when the mold is made. It also increases the strength of the final casting, while slightly altering the form. This is, however, how I know my work when I see it elsewhere. If you want a museum quality replica, you go to a museum quality replica store… if you want to put a skull on a hat, or a necklace, and not ruin it horribly and get bone sand in your food or up your shnozz (speaking of risks!) you come to Catalyst Studios and we hook you up.
Or you go to some rip-off vendor on Etsy and pay way too much for a third hand casting. I recommend you don’t, personally, but that could just be that I’m selfish; after all, this is how I make my living. Physical disability has prevented me from having any other job since about 2008, although apparently it’s not enough of a disability for the state I live in to kick me down anything. I can’t even afford new rubber to remake old molds that are falling apart right now because even with the discount my very kind pharmacist gives me on the medication that prevents me from shaking, I’m dumping all my extra income into medication and a special diet. I mean, why could I possibly want to prevent someone from ripping off my stuff?

Copying the work of other artists and selling it as your own is a rotten thing to do. Please help spread the word about how Catalyst Studios and dammitkoi are being ripped off.

dammitkoi:

This is a crow skull replica. Jason Soles and I have been casting and selling this skull - and roughly 6 others cast from the same real bone original (borrowed from and returned to Mother Earth, because it is against US law - specifically the Migratory Bird Treaty Act - to possess any part of a native migratory bird; don’t confront me about that, confront the folks in the US government, specifically the Fish & Wildlife Dept. This is not what this is about. Moving on.) for over 12 years. We sell these in our Etsy shops, and have sold them at craft fairs and spooky events, and we sold them on Moritorium.com when said site had a shopping cart. We have re-made the molds several times in those twelve years, but I recognize our lines (molds leave lines, which sometimes aren’t sanded off as much as I’d like), our shoring (that’s where the clay goes in to make the skull “solid”, bird skulls aren’t solid, of course, more on that later), when I see it. I am proud of our work and I love seeing our castings used in other people’s crafts, jewelry, etc. We do not wholesale them and we do not sell them for direct resale, so we should be the only shops on Etsy that carry them.

Lo and behold, here is a photograph someone else took of what are definitely our skulls, and she is claiming on her Etsy listing that she made them herself. Hm. How… interesting.

image

I wrote her a “conversation” (that’s the name Etsy gives its internal message system) and reminded her of why I don’t sell wholesale and that I would not sell to her again if she did not remove the listing. I ended the note with, “If you are recasting from my original molds, we have an even larger problem, but you certainly wouldn’t do a thing like that, would you?”

I received no response. So I reported the listing to Etsy as misrepresenting the item. After all, even if she is casting them herself (which would be lame all on its own anyway), they were our research & development, our handling a dead animal (someone else’s illegal pet, if you must know; I cleaned it myself), and our risk of being FINED BY FISH & WILDLIFE TO THE TUNE OF $1500 had an agent happened to wander into my house while I was performing said cleaning. I am a conservationist, FYI, and I don’t believe it’s cool to violate the treaty, ergo, I buried the thing when I was done. Because of said treaty and people not wanting to take that risk, there aren’t a lot of crow replicas on the market. I know one other vendor (local to me, even) who makes them - they are rotationally cast and nearly as detailed and as fragile as the real thing. We make ours for costumers and for people who will wear them around so they are sturdy.

Now. Are these recasts? I do not know. They could be, but I went through my sales records and have sold Ms. Brown (MortiisM, she calls herself on Etsy, “Melissa Mortiis”, if you simply are dying to know) no less than fourteen replica crow skulls. So as long as there aren’t more than fourteen replica crows in her sales archive, we’re solid and she’s *just* misrepresenting my work as hers. I haven’t counted individual sales in her archive on crow items because this other thing got pointed out to me by a long-time friend, fan, and occasional photographer for the studio…

This listing, for a kitten necklace? That’s my kitten skull, I can tell from the teeth and the shoring… I’ve sold her one. She has sold… quite a few.

Really. Really? Really. I still need to send Etsy’s admins a note about this, but I contacted the seller immediately and let her know I could count. I can only imagine that Etsy’s complaint inbox is boiling over during the holiday season and I don’t see how adding to it further is going to speed things along. I will probably show them this post to illustrate my previous point though.

image

This is my hand, about 3.45 pm PST. I washed it shortly after, because dead things? No matter how “clean” you get them? Grodie. Mittens here was a barn kitten, and he did not make it, obviously. Poor little dude. So my friend traded him to me to make a mold and make some skulls for their projects. We can see here an example of what I refer to as “shoring” - clay in hollow areas to block the rubber from entering the skull when the mold is made. It also increases the strength of the final casting, while slightly altering the form. This is, however, how I know my work when I see it elsewhere. If you want a museum quality replica, you go to a museum quality replica store… if you want to put a skull on a hat, or a necklace, and not ruin it horribly and get bone sand in your food or up your shnozz (speaking of risks!) you come to Catalyst Studios and we hook you up.

Or you go to some rip-off vendor on Etsy and pay way too much for a third hand casting. I recommend you don’t, personally, but that could just be that I’m selfish; after all, this is how I make my living. Physical disability has prevented me from having any other job since about 2008, although apparently it’s not enough of a disability for the state I live in to kick me down anything. I can’t even afford new rubber to remake old molds that are falling apart right now because even with the discount my very kind pharmacist gives me on the medication that prevents me from shaking, I’m dumping all my extra income into medication and a special diet. I mean, why could I possibly want to prevent someone from ripping off my stuff?

06

Nov

Do not take a picture of your ballot, do not post pictures of your ballots. Stop fucking doing this.

fuckyeahcracker:

fuckyeahcracker:

list of the laws that determine if you can or can’t and by what limits

  1. please do not because of this
  2. please do not because of this also
  3. And just don’t because if you don’t know whether or not your state allows it, it isn’t worth it to find out the hard way. Vote, be proud but do not post pictures of your ballot online or anywhere else.
  4. States that ban photo equipment at polling places: FL, GA, KY, NV, NC, TX. 

Seriously, STOP.

05

Nov

fyi!!

If a poll worker or poll watcher attempts to deny you a ballot, call the National Election Protection Hotline at 1-866-OUR-VOTE (866-687-8683) immediately.

Via legalizetrans.

stunthusband:

volumenometry:

like, for real.
for actually.
we all love looking at hilarious pictures of paul ryan acting like a douche bag on this website, but if we don’t vote he’s gonna be VP and the joke’ll be on us.

THIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIS
SOOOOO MUCH THIS
Just snarking about candidates online ISN’T THE SAME AS VOTING.
GOOO VOOOOOOTE.

VOTE. Please. 

stunthusband:

volumenometry:

like, for real.

for actually.

we all love looking at hilarious pictures of paul ryan acting like a douche bag on this website, but if we don’t vote he’s gonna be VP and the joke’ll be on us.

THIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIS

SOOOOO MUCH THIS

Just snarking about candidates online ISN’T THE SAME AS VOTING.

GOOO VOOOOOOTE.

VOTE. Please. 

(Source: bvsed-socialist)

04

Nov

knowhomo:

LGBTQ* NEWS YOU MAY HAVE MISSED!
(Needed: Volunteers, Donors, Time, and Love. Click Here for Ali Forney Link)

Ali Forney Drop-In Center Destroyed by Hurricane Sandy

(Executive Director, Carl Siciliano at Day Center with clients and staff)


Dear Friends,


Yesterday we were finally able to inspect our drop-in center in Chelsea, half a block from the Hudson River. Our worst fears were realized; everything was destroyed and the space is uninhabitable. The water level went four feet high, destroying our phones, computers, refrigerator, food and supplies.


This is a terrible tragedy for the homeless LGBT youth we serve there. This space was dedicated to our most vulnerable kids, the thousands stranded on the streets without shelter, and was a place where they received food, showers, clothing, medical care, HIV testing and treatment, and mental health and substance abuse services. Basically a lifeline for LGBT kids whose lives are in danger.


We are currently scrambling for a plan to provide care to these desperate kids while we prepare to ultimately move into a larger space that will better meet our needs. The NYC LGBT Center has very kindly and generously offered to let us temporarily use some of their space, and we hope to determine the viability of that on Monday.


We have been deluged with kind offers from people who wish to volunteer and donate goods. Unfortunately, we will have to provide our services in the time being in much smaller spaces that won’t accommodate volunteers or allow for much storage space. The best way people can reach out to help in this very challenging time is by making monetary donations. Please go to our website at www.aliforneycenter.org/hurricanesandy


It is heartbreaking to see this space come to such a sad end. For the past seven years it has been a place of refuge to thousands of kids reeling from being thrown away by their parents for being LGBT. For many of these kids coming to our drop-in center provided  their first encounter with a loving and affirming LGBT community. I thank all of you for your care and support in a most difficult time.


- Carl Siciliano
Please help us by donating HEREor send checks to:
Ali Forney Center/ATTN: Andria Ottley,    224 West 35th St,    Suite 1500    NY,NY 10001






Message From The Director


New York City can be a brutal place for homeless youth and tragically, many young lives have been destroyed. At the Ali Forney Center (AFC), we are making a difference by rescuing kids from the dangers of the streets and placing them into our safe, homelike environments.
AFC is working hard to provide our youth with the support and nourishment they need to succeed and thrive. We cannot do this work alone. We need the help and support of the broader community to make NYC a safer place for homeless LGBT youth. Thank you for your support and interest.Carl Siciliano, Executive Director

knowhomo:

LGBTQ* NEWS YOU MAY HAVE MISSED!

(Needed: Volunteers, Donors, Time, and Love. Click Here for Ali Forney Link)

Ali Forney Drop-In Center Destroyed by Hurricane Sandy

(Executive Director, Carl Siciliano at Day Center with clients and staff)

Dear Friends,

Yesterday we were finally able to inspect our drop-in center in Chelsea, half a block from the Hudson River. Our worst fears were realized; everything was destroyed and the space is uninhabitable. The water level went four feet high, destroying our phones, computers, refrigerator, food and supplies.

This is a terrible tragedy for the homeless LGBT youth we serve there. This space was dedicated to our most vulnerable kids, the thousands stranded on the streets without shelter, and was a place where they received food, showers, clothing, medical care, HIV testing and treatment, and mental health and substance abuse services. Basically a lifeline for LGBT kids whose lives are in danger.

We are currently scrambling for a plan to provide care to these desperate kids while we prepare to ultimately move into a larger space that will better meet our needs. The NYC LGBT Center has very kindly and generously offered to let us temporarily use some of their space, and we hope to determine the viability of that on Monday.

We have been deluged with kind offers from people who wish to volunteer and donate goods. Unfortunately, we will have to provide our services in the time being in much smaller spaces that won’t accommodate volunteers or allow for much storage space. The best way people can reach out to help in this very challenging time is by making monetary donations. Please go to our website at www.aliforneycenter.org/hurricanesandy

It is heartbreaking to see this space come to such a sad end. For the past seven years it has been a place of refuge to thousands of kids reeling from being thrown away by their parents for being LGBT. For many of these kids coming to our drop-in center provided  their first encounter with a loving and affirming LGBT community. I thank all of you for your care and support in a most difficult time.

- Carl Siciliano

Please help us by donating HEREor send checks to:

Ali Forney Center/ATTN: Andria Ottley,    224 West 35th St,    Suite 1500    NY,NY 10001

Message From The Director

Carl Siciliano, Executive Director of the Ali Forney Center.

New York City can be a brutal place for homeless youth and tragically, many young lives have been destroyed. At the Ali Forney Center (AFC), we are making a difference by rescuing kids from the dangers of the streets and placing them into our safe, homelike environments.

AFC is working hard to provide our youth with the support and nourishment they need to succeed and thrive. We cannot do this work alone. We need the help and support of the broader community to make NYC a safer place for homeless LGBT youth. Thank you for your support and interest.

Carl Siciliano, Executive Director

15

Oct

astolat:

OTW Membership DriveOctober 13-17, 2012
Probably if you’re reading this, you’ve at least heard of the AO3 — read stories on it, maybe posted — but you may not realize that it’s 100% donor-supported, that we are and always will be ad-free (except for our donation drive banner ;), and that we’re never going to try to find some way to make a profit off the content. 
The AO3 is funded by the OTW, the Organization for Transformative Works, which makes possible the archive and a ton of other projects that also would be too big for any one fan to accomplish alone — including Fanlore, Transformative Works And Cultures, Open Doors and the Fannish Culture Preservation Project, and our legal advocacy.
So if you use or value these — please support if you can! $10 is all you need to donate to become a member and show your support, and there is shiny shiny swag at higher levels. :D 
Speaking of which, CHECK OUT THE AWESOME SWAG! Kudos water bottle! *makes grabby hands*
(PS: You do still have to wait in the AO3 queue for an invite though — sorry! For privacy reasons we keep all financial/RL information completely separate from our services.)
Donate Here
And please reblog reblog reblog! <3

astolat:

OTW Membership Drive
October 13-17, 2012

Probably if you’re reading this, you’ve at least heard of the AO3 — read stories on it, maybe posted — but you may not realize that it’s 100% donor-supported, that we are and always will be ad-free (except for our donation drive banner ;), and that we’re never going to try to find some way to make a profit off the content. 

The AO3 is funded by the OTW, the Organization for Transformative Works, which makes possible the archive and a ton of other projects that also would be too big for any one fan to accomplish alone — including Fanlore, Transformative Works And Cultures, Open Doors and the Fannish Culture Preservation Project, and our legal advocacy.

So if you use or value these — please support if you can! $10 is all you need to donate to become a member and show your support, and there is shiny shiny swag at higher levels. :D 

Speaking of which, CHECK OUT THE AWESOME SWAG! Kudos water bottle! *makes grabby hands*

(PS: You do still have to wait in the AO3 queue for an invite though — sorry! For privacy reasons we keep all financial/RL information completely separate from our services.)

Donate Here

And please reblog reblog reblog! <3

Mad Gastronomer: jhameia: Are you a POC attending SteamCon?STEAMPUNKS OF COLOUR,...

jhameia:

Are you a POC attending SteamCon?

STEAMPUNKS OF COLOUR, UNITE! This is an actualfax party I am hosting on the official party floor, Friday night, starting 8pm until midnight! There will be giveaways! There will be free booze for as long as it lasts! I will have to card you if…

28

Sep

Grim Corps Magazine needs you!

stunthusband:

Really - take a look, and think about backing it. Charles is a friend of mine and the StuntWife, he’s a published horror author, and this project is a *very* good thing.

I know the economy sucks. That’s why I’m not jumping up and down and shrieking about this. But I *should*. And, FWIW, I’ve thrown money at it - because even if horror fiction isn’t my cuppa (and it’s not, honestly) - Charles’ project is too cool - and deserving - to die on the vine.